Wednesday, February 21, 2018

President, PM pay homage to language heroes

President Abdul Hamid and prime minister Sheikh Hasina have paid their tributes to the martyrs of the language movement on the occasion of Amar Ekushey and the International Mother Language Day.
They paid the homage by placing wreaths at the Central Shaheed Minar at one minute past Tuesday night.
President Abdul Hamid and prime Minister Sheikh Hasina proceeded to the altar of the Central Shaheed Minar together in slow pace as the song on Amar Ekushey--"Amar bhaiyer rakte rangano Ekushey February(My Brothers Blood Spattered 21 February)"-- was playing.
The president was the first to lay the wreath at the Central Shaheed Minar. Just after the president, the prime minister placed the wreath at the Shaheed Minar.
They stood in solemn silence for some time as a mark of profound respect to the memories of the language heroes.

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

GAYE HOLUD: PRE-WEDDING CEREMONY







This is a pre-wedding ceremony for both bride and groom. In the past it was a family affair where womenfolk would participate and men were not permitted in the rituals.

The brides got exfoliated with turmeric and other fragrant herbs as a pre-wedding beautification ceremony. Now, holud events are very elaborate with the bride's holud taking place the day before the grooms.
The trousseau of gifts and sweets are carried on this day. They are wrapped and packed beautifully making a clear statement about the theme of the wedding. The entire process is good fun.

Family and sometimes friends put in their share to make the presentations look magical. Clearly there is healthy competition of the two groups to out do each other with their personal styles. The observance of touching the turmeric and smearing it on the forehead is a ceremonial tradition. The brides are now seated before an assortment of finger foods mostly traditional pithas (rice cakes) and some savouries that are fed to her as a favour of approval.

Traditionally poems were read out to mock family and friends using humorous parodies that brought a hearty laugh to the guests, all done in good taste. The highlight of the holud in yesteryears was playing with colour both dry and wet. In the past, it was a small family affair, intimate and personal while today, this is a lavish event and lip-syncing and performing dance routines to songs has become central to the events.